Patience is waiting your turn, enduring hardship, difficulty or inconvenience without complaint and with calmness and self-control; the willingness and ability to tolerate delay.
Sometimes our passion for efficiency and desire for immediate effective action produces the unintended consequence of being impatient. Reacting quickly in the moment can become a habitual style reinforced by seeming to get a lot done. We forget that what may seem slower (by taking time now to patiently listen) often results in a faster (more comprehensive and accepted) result.Patience can be learned, and developed by following the tips like these from EQDashboard.com.
If you or someone with whom you work exhibit these behaviors, seeking the advice and tips at EQDashboard.com provides a quick remedy:
- Poor stress management skills which contribute to feeling rushed, frantic or reactive
- Judging and criticizing others; perceiving others as an obstacle
- Feeling pressured by tight deadlines
- Hot-tempered, easily irritated or annoyed
- Clueless as to how impatience affects others
- Poor impulse control
Action learning tips and learning assignments on the job are a click away at EQDashboard.com.
You might also consider (a sampling of suggestions from EQdashboard.com):
- Easwaran, Enath. Patience: A Little Book of Inner Strength. Tomales, CA: Niligiri Press, 2010.
- Ryan, Mary Jane. The Power of Patience: How to Slow the Rush and Enjoy More Happiness, Success, and Peace of Mind Every Day. New York: Broadway, 2003.
- Essential Life Skills. Patience and tips on how to develop it. http://www.essentiallifeskills.net/patience.html
- Ezine Articles. Paris, M. J. Nov. 7, 2008. “Patience, Perseverance, and Positive – P2P.” http://ezinearticles.com/search/?q=patience
- Psychology Today. “Four Steps To Developing Patience, Four Steps to Decrease the Happiness Killer: Impatience,” blog posted on Sept. 2, 2011, by Jane Bolton. http://www.psychologytoday.com/search/query?keys=patience&x=0&y=0