While we take the view that EQ related behaviors can be learned, tweaked, and adjusted, some models of EQ have as a premise that the basic abilities can’t be changed, though you can learn coping techniques. For example, those who believe that your ability to read others’ emotions can’t be improved, they would argue that you can learn cues and tips to approximate a better read of others’ emotions.
Certainly, some behaviors are more difficult to development than others. For example, learning to adjust Impulse Control is much more difficult that learning elements of Listening Generously.
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